What’s your favorite thing to do during the holidays? Mine is visiting with family and friends. I absolutely love spending time with others! And the holidays often present that opportunity more than any other time in the year. Today, my dear friend, Carmen, is sharing her Top 10 Favorite things to do during the holidays! When you’ve finished reading, I hope you will share your favorite tradition or thing to do during the holidays in the comments below!
I have always stated that Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. While I still stick to that, (It is the only holiday where I get to see most of my cousins) I have come to realize that, for me, it is the BEGINNING of the season. I am a person who has always accepted the “Happy Holidays” greeting. Because, for ME, “The Holidays” are all of the days that comprise the times and days between the last Thursday in November to January 2. It’s a whole season of happiness!! (Legit dancing in my seat because I’m getting excited!)
As a kid, I learned A LOT about making the season memorable without busting tail to try too hard. My mom always says, the things we remember the most, weren’t the big things she went out of her way to do. It wasn’t the presents or having the perfect dress. It was the things we did together to make the house feel warm and festive.
(DISCLAIMER: Jesus is ABSOLUTELY the meaning behind everything we do. ABSOLUTELY. However, I feel strongly that there is something extra special about the whole season. While keeping Jesus at the forefront, we do a lot of other things to focus on love and joy instead of stress and perfection.)
Here is my top 10 favorite things we do during the holidays:
10. BAKE!!! – My favorite is to bake homemade party mix, cookies, crème de menthe brownies, peppermint bark and cinnamon roll. As a kid, my mom always baked for my teachers, and I do now for my kid’s teachers. I mean, they don’t need another mug, but another cookie…
9. MUSIC!! So. Much. Music. Fun music, Jesus music, pretty music, classical music… Some of our favorites are: Chris Tomlin, Oak Ridge Boys, Amy Grant, Kenny G., the kid’s Christmas play music, Alvin and the Chipmunks. Play it in the house, in the car, while you’re baking…PLAY IT, SING IT, DANCE WITH IT.
8. Decorate together: True, most of the ornaments on my tree are at knee level, but the kids have so much fun. We have a Nativity in every room and I LOVE the way they perceive the Holy Family by the way they arrange them. Your house can be pretty in a few years when they’ve gone off to college.
7. Movie night, often. Everyone sits and you watch together. (Enjoy #10.)
6. Do the family stuff! The biggest cause of conflict is uncommunicated and unmet expectations. Talk to both sides of the family early in the season to establish their hopes and your schedules. The more you talk, the happier everyone is.
5. Be a team: If one member of the family is expected to do it all, there’s going to be a lot of joy lost. Wrap presents together as you get them. (And do #7, #9, and #10 while you’re at it) Stuff Christmas cards together. Make it a relational time, not a stressful time.
4. Turn the room lights off and the tree lights on. Often.
3. Spend extra time with people. Take the extra cookies to the neighbors. Give an extra hug. Make an extra phone call. Choose the right extras and do them.
2. We do Santa. (That may put me in jail for the Christian parents.) We don’t emphasize it. But, we both were raised doing Santa and still 100% believed in Jesus from a young age and were able to decipher the difference. And the wonder of Christmas and the element of surprise is so fun and something I looked forward to. We still read “The Night Before Christmas” and we sing “Rudolph”. We make Santa cookies. “Santa” brings 3 presents to emphasize the 3 presents from the Wisemen. The other presents they get are from us. As a mom, I find it exhausting to always do the “right” things especially in raising my children to love Jesus. And, for our family, we don’t feel that a little Christmas imagination thwarts that.
1. Advent wreath: Advent at church is beautiful. And meaningful. But, often the skit, or the reading is over my kids’ heads. There are tons of pretty wreaths with candles to buy to use at home. We light one candle and talk about what that means. Let them ask questions. Reteach the previous week. Because, we can never talk too much about LOVE, JOY, PEACE, HOPE, AND JESUS. We chose to do the Jesse tree with the book leading us: “Unwrapping the Greatest Gift: A Family Celebration of Christmas” by Ann Voskamp. It has a daily reading taking us from the beginning of the Bible to Jesus and what all of the signs along the way said about the coming Messiah. There are ornaments the kids can color and hang on a tree. It has been one of our greatest times together. Every night, we relight that week’s advent candle to reemphasize the characteristic of Jesus we want to embrace.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year y’all.
Now it’s your turn! What’s your favorite thing to do during the holidays? Share in the comments below.
Carmen Boso is a pastor’s wife who is a teacher on the side. She is married to Lee and together they have a daughter, Nina, and a son, Brooks. They also have a Lab and a Golden Retriever. They share a love for cooking and traveling and eating copious amounts of junk food. To learn more about Carmen visit: www.babyboso.blogspot.com